It may seem like the school year just got started, but the truth is most seniors are already thinking about what’s next.
Some will go to work, some to trade school, and some will be going to college. No matter what they do, it is a big transition for everyone involved. Going off to college or trade school has its own challenges. Most students have had their lives mostly managed for them. When they get to college and a whole new environment, they are pretty much on their own in a bigger world than our cozy town of Artesia.
Life experiences have offered up these 10 tips for surviving and thriving in a new world:
1. Keep an eye on your grades!
It is easy to do this with a school’s online service and portal. Also, let your parents in to allow them to help you out.
2. Manage your money and your time.
Spending only what you have (or less!) is better than spending too much (usually with a credit card) and trying to solve a financial problem later that often spirals out of control. A little weekly management prevents a lot of stress later.
3. Get involved in something.
Most people do better on all levels when they stay busy. Getting involved also helps you find friends with shared interests.
4. Find a passion.
Take a fun class, dive into your degree, get a fun campus-based hobby, or join a team. When other things seem to be going wrong, something you are excited about will help you get out of bed every day.
5. Moderate your life and prioritize.
While it is good to get involved, do not get over-involved. Say no when needed, especially to too many late nights out, too many volunteer commitments, etc.
6. Use your resources.
Your school has many tools to help students adjust to the changes, including tutoring services, learning centers, group study, counseling services, and more. Talk to a professor or adviser, and talk to your parents or other trusted family member to help you stay on track academically and emotionally.
7. Stay active—mentally and physically.
Challenge yourself in learning. Get some exercise at the gym. Walk when you can instead of driving. Taking care of your health will make you more successful.
8. Be open-minded, but do not lose yourself.
Let yourself meet new people and learn about cultures or ways of doing things you may not have experienced before. However, do not compromise your values, and know when to back away.
9. Use “failures” to your advantage.
Learn from mistakes or a bad grade. Do not let something you perceive as a failure be the end of you or send you packing home. Your less-than-best moments can be a good way to learn how to be better. There is always a way to recover.
10. Keep your gratitude higher than your expectations.
Always remember that your experiences and opportunities are blessings. Appreciating what you have makes life enjoyable. Expecting something you may not have, or even deserve, often leads to unnecessary disappointment and frustration.
Best of luck to all our students as they begin making plans and preparing for what comes next in life. With the right mindset, it is all exciting!
